Are You Blocking Yourself From Manifesting Your Soulmate? Here’s What Might Be Holding You Back

Manifesting your soulmate isn’t about wishing for someone to show up and magically complete your life. It’s about aligning your energy with the love you truly deserve. But if you’ve been trying everything—affirmations, visualisation, journaling—and still haven’t found that perfect partner, you might be blocking yourself in ways you don’t realise.

I’ve been there, and I know how frustrating it can feel when it seems like everything is working against you. Here are a few common things that can block us from manifesting our soulmate, and what you can do about them:

1. Unhealed Emotional Wounds

We all carry baggage from past relationships, and it’s easy to think we can just move on without addressing the hurt. But if you’re still carrying the weight of heartbreak, betrayal, or disappointment, it’s going to show up in your energy and stop you from attracting new love.

I’ve been through this myself, and healing is a game-changer. When I started to truly heal from my past, I made space for new love to come in.

What You Can Do: Spend time healing those wounds. Whether it’s through EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), journaling, or seeking support, releasing that old emotional baggage is essential to moving forward.

2. Not Feeling ‘Worthy’ of Love

A big one. If you don’t believe you deserve to have the relationship you want, you’re probably going to keep attracting people who make you feel like you don’t deserve it.

I know this one well. For years, I didn’t feel worthy of the love I dreamt about. It wasn’t until I worked on loving myself that I started attracting the kind of partner I truly deserved.

What You Can Do: Start by recognising your worth. Take a moment each day to affirm how amazing and deserving you are of love. Your energy will shift, and so will what you attract.

3. Clinging to the Past

If you’re still hung up on a past relationship, it can be hard to make room for someone new. Maybe you’re comparing everyone to an ex or holding onto the hope that someone will come back into your life.

I know how hard it can be to let go of someone who’s been important to you, but trust me when I say it’s necessary for your growth. If you hold on too tightly to the past, you can’t move forward.

What You Can Do: Let go. Forgive yourself and others. It’s OK to have the memories, but stop letting them control your future. Create space for something new.

4. Fear of Being Hurt Again

Fear of getting hurt is normal, especially if you’ve been let down in the past. But if you let this fear run the show, it’s going to keep you stuck. The truth is, love always involves a bit of risk. But the beauty of being open to love is that it allows you to truly connect with someone who might just be perfect for you.

What You Can Do: Acknowledge the fear but don’t let it take control. Start small, open yourself up to new experiences, and trust that you are strong enough to handle whatever comes your way. You deserve love, and you don’t need to hide from it.

5. Unclear Vision of What You Want

If you don’t know what you’re looking for in a partner, how is the universe supposed to know? When you’re not clear on the qualities you want in a soulmate, you might end up attracting someone who isn’t right for you, simply because you didn’t define what you truly wanted.

What You Can Do: Take the time to sit down and get clear about what you want. What values matter to you? What qualities in a partner are non-negotiable? When you get clear, you align yourself with the kind of partner who is a true match.

6. Living Inauthentically

If you’re not being your true self, you can’t attract someone who truly aligns with who you are. If you’re pretending to be someone you’re not or living a life that doesn’t feel true to you, you’re not going to bring in the love that’s meant for you.

When I started living authentically—just being me—that’s when I started to attract the right kind of love into my life.

What You Can Do: Live your truth. Embrace who you are and what makes you unique. When you step into your authenticity, you’ll magnetise someone who truly loves you for you.

7. Believing There’s Not Enough Love to Go Around

A scarcity mindset around love can block you from manifesting your soulmate. If you believe there’s only a limited amount of love out there, you’ll struggle to believe that your soulmate exists and is available for you. The truth is, love is abundant. There is always enough to go around.

What You Can Do: Shift your mindset to abundance. Start believing that there’s someone out there who’s a perfect match for you. When you open yourself to this belief, you’ll start to attract more of what you desire.

Take the First Step Toward Manifesting Your Soulmate

If any of these blocks resonated with you, it’s time to take action. You don’t have to keep repeating the same patterns or struggling to attract the love you deserve. Manifesting your soulmate starts with knowing where you’re being held back.

I’ve created a free quiz to help you uncover the specific blocks that might be preventing you from manifesting your soulmate. Once you know what’s in your way, you can begin shifting your energy and taking the steps toward attracting the love you truly deserve.

Take the Quiz Now to Discover Your Soulmate Manifestation Blocks!

Let’s break through these blocks together and start creating the love life you’ve been dreaming of.